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Surviving PTSD

When I was leaving the hospital after a: few near death experiences, coma, and major surgery, the ICU nurse told me “don’t worry about dusting your house – dust is for leaving love messages for your family in” and “you will experience ptsd”. She also said “apparently you were meant to do something amazing with your life – that’s why you are still alive.” No pressure there!!

I would like to share my recovery with PTSD. I still trigger every now and again or get overwhelmed. I know I will never be the same as before but can function, enjoy life and be creative and productive again. In some ways I am actually better. Some things challenge me more now.

Anyways – Bach Flower Remedies saved my sanity. Rescue Remedy is sold in health food stores or online so if you want to try it right now, go get some! Personally, I prefer my own line of bach flower remedies named Faery Heart Elixirs available also online (www.universalembodiment.com). They are liquids made out of the vibration of plants, that you take under your tongue, but work emotionally, and energetically within minutes. They don’t effect medications and are good old mother nature LOVE! I could take them when I was freaking out, distraught, feeling overwhelmed and feel peaceful and calm the next moment. They are life support for the sensitive souls! Life saver for me and my family for sure!

Another thing that helped me gained control of my life, was working with a miraculous belief systems coach named Marie Martin from Kelowna, British Columbia. She has worked with many front line workers, 911 operators and others that have suffered with ptsd. She helped me clear subconsciously what was triggering me in a easy, loving, calm, and quick way. Once they were cleared, my triggers either went away or lessened to a manageable “normal” proportion. It is possible to roll through triggers quickly and easily.

Nutrition, healing, time and patience is always necessary for recovery. Family support is also a blessing! My family’s support and understanding made the hell I was in, a bit easier. Janet, my girlfriend, was really a saint! She repeated herself a million times because my short term memory was nonexistent in the beginning and I asked the same questions repeatedly. When I was in a full on freak out she would remain calm and not make eye contact (family joke) – wait for my outburst to end, and hope somehow we would all survive. PTSD is not easy on us, but our families get to go thru it right alongside us too! Remember to cut them a break! Try not to judge yourself so harshly. You are lucky to be alive. Be gentle with yourself! Show some love for the family walking by your side thru hell also!

For physical support in regaining my memory and straightening my body out after surgery, I went to a Body Talk practitioner named Richard Stuart from Calgary, Alberta. It took a few treatments to get the rest of my organs working together again and my brain function back but he was key for my continuing physical, emotional and energetic support. I did say brain function back! One night after a session it felt like a switch flipped on in my brain and I had some more back – best feeling ever for me! Body Talkers can get your body communicating with each other again which supports healing in a way like no other modality for me. I love it! Strongly recommend checking them out in an area near you.

PTSD survival and enjoying life again is possible. My intention was to share some huge keys for my own recovery process. Trust your intuition. Keep watching for the people and things, that can assist you. If you need some referrals I’ve sprinkled them liberally throughout this blog. If you are interesting on finding out more about my line of Faery Heart Elixirs, or the people that assisted me, please check out my website at www.universalembodiment. com. If you need any suggestions or want to connect – drop me a line!

Miracles happen every day! Trust me, I am one and so are you!

If you trust yourself the Universe will trust you!

The Universe is truly amazing and the power of connection and energy continues to blow my mind!

Once again this is another perfect example of the Universe working its Power and Magic and collectively gathering women who have the intention and purpose of living in truth and teaching others how to do the same by sharing their stories and their vulnerability!

When I was invited to be part of this book, I immediately knew intuitively the right publisher had found me and I trusted from the first email!

I had put the intention out in the universe about a year prior and it’s not by chance the opportunity showed up when it did!

I knew I would meet other authors and that they would be sharing their stories but I had know idea who!

When it was revealed who all my co-authors were I was blown away at the alignment the purpose and the power at all of these beautiful powerful women all uniquely different but energetically a strong similar vibration and intention!

My teaching to others is “Trusting your Intuition!”, and you can’t teach something until you have a strong practice with yourself first.

I am joyful at the trusting on this project! I don’t believe there are any coincidences and it is obvious and clear here, the energy behind this collaboration is for the greater good to inspire and raise the vibration of consciousness through sharing our own vulnerability and personal journeys!

Let your intuition always be in alignment with your truth and it will never guide you wrong!

With much love and gratitude,
Anne Marie

5 Steps to Increasing Your Confidence

Ever feel like everyone you know has more confidence than you do?  You feel like you could crawl underneath the door and it’s not even open?

You are not the only one my friend. People all over the world has some confidence issues.  Whether it’s to talk to someone you want to go out with, reach out for friendship, develop business relationships, networking, or doing what you need to do to increase business. So, what do we do to increase our confidence?

Here are 5 things you can do today to increase your confidence:

  1. Posture – your posture tells the world a whole lot about you and your confidence. Remember your Mother telling you to sit straight and walk with your shoulders back.  Think of a person who walks in the room with their shoulders back, head held high and a smile on their face.  Now, think of a person who comes in the room with their shoulders rounded, head down and not smiling.  Which one looks more confident?  You are correct, the first one.  So, start with posture.
  2. Stop thinking of yourself so much. Sounds a bit harsh, but the more focus you have on yourself the more self conscious you will be.  Focus on the person you are talking with, be in the moment and be interested in the other person.
  3. Write out questions. If you are shy and don’t know what to say to people memorize some questions when the conversation goes to a stand still.  Especially if you are on a date and you are getting to know each other.
  4. Be yourself. You are unique and wonderfully made.  People want to know you not someone you think they want to know.  Don’t compare yourself to others.
  5. If it doesn’t come naturally to you at first, you will need to practice until you are comfortable.  Practice being around people.  Practice all the steps.

Whether you have some confidence or none, you can use these steps to increase your confidence.  There are so many more things you can do to increase your confidence, such as mindset and how you talk to yourself.  Give me a call for your complimentary discovery session to see how we can work together to increase your confidence.

About Karen

While reconstructing her life after divorce, she lost her 17-year-old daughter in a car accident.  Her life felt like it stopped, and she struggled and fought to get out of the darkness.  Although the two very stressful situations are very different she realized there were similar processes to recovery.

Karen is passionate about sharing her journey and step by step system to help others reclaiming their lives after the death of a loved one and divorce with POWER, CONFIDENCE & JOY so people can create joy and happiness once again.  She is now making her teachings available online.

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Mindfulness Monday Quick Hit #14 ~ Stop Your Busy: And Become Present Just Like That

Are you one of those people who has “to get to just one more thing” – constantly?

How about needing to be on-the-go all the time out of habit? Well imagine what it would be like if you could just STOP.

Stop the busyness and bring in the ahhhhhhh…

Photo Courtesy of Fabrizio Verrecchia

Most of us spend our time running around doing, doing, doing.

And while sometimes that makes us feel productive, important and needed – it sure doesn’t help us to feel grounded, clear or calm.

 

Do You Ever Just Stop?

Does it ever occur to you to just stop? Even for a moment.

It’s interesting how stopping changes your perspective on what seems so urgent.

And what really is so urgent or critical that you can’t stop, take a deep breath and become present?

Let’s be honest. Gratefully, for most of us there are very few occasions in our day, when our habitual running is actually averting pure disaster.

And it goes without saying, that you’ll be considerably more focused and effective if you do stop for that deep breath.

 

Here’s How To Stop & Become Mindful

So the next time you find yourself rushing –  use it as the perfect opportunity to become present and mindful by following these quick steps: 

  1. STOP dead in your tracks.
  2. Take a deep breath.
  3. Really feelthat deep breath.
  4. Refocuson what’s in your field of vision.
  5. Groundyour feet.
  6. State to yourself  aloud “I am present”.
  7. Smile.(very important step)
  8. Move onto your next task.

The more often you’re able to practice STOPPING, the better you’ll feel.

Pretty easy. Can’t hurt to give it a try.

 

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STOP CHASING YOUR ZEN…it’s right in front of you.

Do you think God/Spirit/Source is ever confused or overwhelmed? Do you think s/he/it gets worried and anxious about health, relationships, or finances? Then why in the world do we?

If we are indeed made in the image and likeness of God, as we’re told, then we, too, have a divine center, a peaceful calm at the core of our soul that is accessible anytime we stop and remember to connect.

The famous Zen saying, “Before Enlightenment chop wood, carry water; after Enlightenment, chop wood, carry water” is a simple reminder that we can transform any task, whether we love it or not, into a calming meditation, an opportunity to breathe, reflect and connect. Even the laundry. Or carpool. Or mundane business tasks.

Each day, as you wake, and before you begin the noisy, busy and possibly insane day that comes along with 21st century living, force yourself to be still.

You see, the most important tool to keep things moving (in the direction you want, most of the time) is to actually take a few minutes to be still. Let’s repeat that: In order to keep things MOVING you must be STILL. What in the world does that mean? It means get out of bed in the morning, sit somewhere, and practice being STILL and SILENT.

“Well what do I do during that time?” you may ask. NOTHING. Listen to the silence, to the space between your thoughts. “BUT WHY?” you may ask. BECAUSE THAT’S WHERE YOUR ANSWERS LIE. They do NOT lie in the busyness of your day. They do not lie in DOING more. Everything you’re looking for – ideas, decisions, clarity – will sort themselves out if you simply stop long enough to BE STILL and QUIET at the beginning of each day.

I encourage you to find your version of quiet and stillness, whether it’s simple breathing, formal meditation, or traditional prayer. It doesn’t matter what it looks like. Just do it. Your Zen is waiting.

No Balance = No Satisfaction, No Success

Tired of chasing success & satisfaction? Not sure what you’re doing wrong?

Our research shows that most women are following the wrong strategies as they work tirelessly to achieve success and satisfaction. In fact, our studies reveal that most of you are working against yourselves. Ouch!

When you follow your proper human design strategy, and you make sure that your Mind, Body & Spirit are all strong and in alignment, then you’ll start experiencing the results you envision with less effort. I know this firsthand, as I’ve been personally experimenting all year, and am eager to share this info it with you!

Consider this:

Your mind can be the LEAST HELPFUL tool in your toolbox unless you know how to train it and control the negative thinking that overtakes it. When you use it for your benefit, it’s quite powerful, but most people simply rehash the same negative thinking over and over, and then expect their life/business situation to change. Get a handle on your mind, and you’re much closer to achieving your goals.

But that’s not all –

Your body is Command Central for your entire life.

And while we know we need it to exist – it literally supports us – often we either ignore or even abuse it. I’m sure you’ve heard the saying, “You’re a spiritual being in a human body,” and so your body (often called “the body temple”) enables your Spirit to exist and move freely through life. It provides you with not only needed energy to live your day powerfully, it’s also one of the best decision-making tools on the planet. Think about how many times you’ve said “It doesn’t feel right” or “Yes, that feels like a good idea.” The only place we actually feel things is within our bodies, which provides invaluable wisdom and knowledge. However, if you’re disconnected from it, you’ll miss these precious signs.

Some wonder how in the world Spirit can help in business. First of all, when we say “Spirit,” we’re referring to something you cannot see, that is larger than you, that you can access for support. To you that may be “God,” “Nature,” “Universal Intelligence,” “Jesus,” Buddha,” etc. What you call it does not matter; what matters is that you call upon it. Plugging into this Source provides access to intuition, resourcefulness, serendipity, flow and trust. It’s like connecting your electrical cord to the outlet in the wall; instantly you’re provided with power, energy, and flow.


If you’re feeling out of balance, or you’re not sure what’s wrong, take our quick Something’s Missing Quiz to find out. At the end you’ll get a bonus First Aid Kit customized to help you strengthen whatever’s off in your system.

 

When to Break the Rules

breakrules-300x290A few questions for you:

Where have you been following the rules – in life or in business – even though there’s a part of you that knows it’s not good for you?

What have you been doing that just doesn’t FEEL right, even if:

1. Everyone else is doing it or

2. Some highly respected authority tells you, you should?

For me, 2016 has been a year of rule breaking. Of shedding the yoke of indoctrination and walking away from “proven” systems that I’m told will lead me to my pot of gold.

See, the rules I was following made me feel like I was standing on a street corner, wearing a chicken suit, hawking my wares. To me, this whole internet marketing thing feels like it’s one big Kmart Blue Light Special.

Can anyone relate?

That’s how I’ve felt for a while now, especially when I’ve followed what the “experts” say I should do.

chickenSo instead, I’ve removed the shackles, turned within, and discovered what really lights me up and feels authentic and I’m building my business/life from THAT place instead. Now, don’t get me wrong – from time to time we need expert advice for things we actually don’t know how to do – but then we must take the crucial step of making sure those steps feel in alignment with who we are. Otherwise you’re just wearing the chicken suit.

If you feel you’re working way too hard following all the rules and you still can’t find your pot of gold, then rest assured there’s a MUCH EASIER way to go about building your life/business.

To Breaking the Rules!

Let’s get you firing on ALL pistons, so that you not only survive the fickle tides of the marketplace, but you also create the sacred business & life that you deserve.

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Tired of chasing success & satisfaction? Not sure what you’re doing wrong?

The Something’s Missing Quiz will reveal exactly why you may be feeling frustrated or bitter about your business/life.Answer a few brief questions to find out where you’re off/what’s wrong, and then receive a customized First Aid Kit that will help you tweak a few things to create more satisfaction and success.

It’s simpler than you think… Find out more here: https://womenswealthrevolution.com/balance/

Do You Suffer From “Not Enoughness”?

I’ll start by sharing with you the thoughts of Lynne Twist, a remarkable thought leader in the field of abundance and money. She dives into the mindset of scarcity, of “not enough-ness,” of ‘poverty consciousness’ (vs. prosperity consciousness) as it’s called.

Before we even sit up in bed, before our feet touch the floor, we’re already inadequate, already behind, already losing, already lacking something. And by the time we go to bed at night, our minds race with a litany of what we didn’t get, or get done, that day. We go to sleep burdened by those thoughts and wake up to that reverie of lack.

This mantra of not enough carries the day and becomes a kind of default setting for our thinking about everything, from the cash in our pocket to the people we love or the value of our own lives.

True, huh?

This is why doing inner work is vital, because my/our thoughts are creative and produce our experience. So we must declutter, release, unearth, and replace the faslehoods with goodness and Truth so that building a business is not so hard. Ease and grace are your birthright, but many of you are still slogging through. I say that with love because I am guilty of that too, more often than I care to admit.

So we must remove the cobwebs of our conditioning, clean up our psyches so our Spirits can shine through, and invite in the wealth that is ours to have.

Most people I talk to will say that their biggest obstacle to true success is themselves…

And one of the biggest culprits holding us back is the “Not-Enough Syndrome”:

I/You/They are not enough.

When you come from a place of not-enoughness, you are actually doing everyone a disservice. You disempower yourself, and you disempower others. This applies in business (“my clients aren’t this or that; my team members aren’t this or that; my husband isn’t this or that”…you get the idea…”)

This is a cancer. You MUST be watchful and nip it in the bud. Do you realize you’ll never be able to change the conditions you don’t want, whether it’s your marriage or your bank account, unless you see these things as perfect and whole and not broken or in need of fixing or not enough? It doesn’t mean you can’t improve, but you may never feel satisfied and at peace if the glass is always half empty. So begin with gratitude for what IS and of course set your intention for what you want while you root out old beliefs that don’t serve you.

If you hear me, then choose to push past this. Be vigilant about your ideas about success and money, and pipe in Truth on a regular basis. You deserve to feel successful & satisfied and YOU ARE ENOUGH!

Let’s get you firing on ALL pistons, so that you not only survive the fickle tides of the marketplace, but you also create the sacred business & life that you deserve.

 

Tired of chasing success & satisfaction? Not sure what you’re doing wrong?

The Something’s Missing Quiz will reveal exactly why you may be feeling frustrated or bitter about your business/life.Answer a few brief questions to find out where you’re off/what’s wrong, and then receive a customized First Aid Kit that will help you tweak a few things to create more satisfaction and success.

It’s simpler than you think… Find out more here: https://womenswealthrevolution.com/balance/

Dinosaur or Puffer Fish: Which One Are You?

Earlier this year, I realized that the Women’s Wealth Revolution™ needed its own revolution! And so I painstakingly went about the process of dismantling the old and reinventing who we are and why we exist. In so doing, some tough truths about the marketplace revealed themselves, which I’ll share in a minute.

But first, a question for you: do you want to be a dinosaur or a puffer fish?

Millions of years ago both species existed. Dinosaurs, the experts tell us, couldn’t adapt to the changing climate and vanished entirely. Puffer fish have been around since then and are a ninja species: to avoid predators, they can change colors to blend into their environment, puff themselves up to four times their normal size, and release enough toxins to kill 30 adults. Talk about an adaptable species able to weather the changing tides! Now, stop for a moment and honestly ask yourself: when faced with adversity and changing conditions, are you a dinosaur or puffer fish?

The reason I ask is because now more than ever the old ways of doing business have stopped working well (this is especially true with the parts of your business that are online – and if you’re not online yet, you’re getting left behind). Whatever is working well now may in fact become obsolete sooner than you think. Most formulas, models, and strategies that were cutting edge just a few short years ago are losing their effectiveness at an alarming pace. So what should you do?

Here’s a few suggestions to ride out the business storms:

1. If you’re learning/following a model that’s been around for 2+ years, begin to innovate or you could become extinct soon. Don’t be that dinosaur; become part of what’s called the “pre-adaptive” group – those who stay ahead of the curve. Pay attention to the trends and leaders in your industry, and shift quickly and nimbly when needed.

TIP: You can shift in small or big ways.

Example of a small shift: make life easier for your customers with automated online bill paying.

Example of a bigger one: completely rework your business model and/or programs to stay relevant, solvent and leveraged.

2. There are no clear rules anymore – it’s the wild wild west out there – so follow your intuition. However, you may not be able to hear it loudly enough to actually use it. In that case, you must sharpen it, so that it becomes one of your biggest business assets and trusted “advisors.”

TIP: You don’t have to go find your intuition. It’s been inside you this whole time. Chances are it’s a bit buried under layers of information and indoctrination. Clear all that out so that you can hear it loudly and regularly. It’s your inner GPS. Practicing contemplation, meditation, reflection, connection, and/or exercise are some of the best ways to do this.

3. Stop letting your Mind run the show. If you’re strictly relying on what’s between your ears to lead your business/life, you’re like the dinosaur AND you’re working way too hard for too few results.

TIP: Engage your body and your spirit in addition to your mind when growing your business and making important decisions. Now that may sound odd or even like nonsense to you right now. However, think about how many times you get a gut feeling or sense that’s something’s right or wrong. How often do you say “I can’t put my finger on it…something just feels off…”? That’s your body’s intelligence at work. Similarly, how many times do “coincidences” happen (e.g. someone you’re thinking about happens to call, or a client lands “out of the blue”)? That’s your spiritual connection/law of attraction/the universe listening and responding to your inner desires and intentions. Imagine if you strengthened both body and spirit and used them as much as you do your mind. I invite you to give it a try and see what shows up.

Let’s get you firing on ALL pistons, so that you not only survive the fickle tides of the marketplace, but you also create the sacred business & life that you deserve.

Tired of chasing success & satisfaction? Not sure what you’re doing wrong?

The Something’s Missing Quiz will reveal exactly why you may be feeling frustrated or bitter about your business/life. Answer a few brief questions to find out where you’re off/what’s wrong, and then receive a customized First Aid Kit that will help you tweak a few things to create more satisfaction and success.

It’s simpler than you think… Find out more here: https://womenswealthrevolution.com/balance/

 

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